BDSM toys usage
The psychologist proved that every person has the predisposition to violence, to a greater or lesser extent. And role-playing games with BDSM paraphernalia usage allow people to embody these predispositions in a safe way, if pairs follow the rules of BDSM principles, where the motto “SSC” – Safe, Sane and Consensual is the basis of such relationship.
The proper usage of BDSM devices may give new joy and pleasure to those pairs, for whom confidence and love are not just the simple words. Such traditional BDSM things as handcuffs, chains, whips, blindfolders are the most important ones, as majority imagine, but there are more interesting and sophisticated devices, that capture people’s attention nowadays.
BDSM Devices:
The BDSM devices are special tools, facilities and gadgets, meant for BDSM actions. Devices for flagellation are grouped into 3 categories: rigid (paddles, slaps), flexible (rods), and mobile (floggers, whips, lashes). Any device you are going to use on the body surface of your partner, should be safe and harmless.
The most popular devices – the mobile ones, which include floggers and whips. Their principal features are – non-rigid, mobile tail part and, as a rule, the hard handle. Usually they made of genuine leather with different kinds of cores and without them. Such floggers and whips should be soft and heavy. They serve for a long and intensive impact. The single-tailed flogger consists of rigid arm and wicker tail, that has a core, but without halyard. The flogger’s tail ends with the node and clapper from the same leather. This device is used for the point actions, splashes and massaging stimulation.
A smooth flogger with many tails consists of rigid handle and thongs, known as“falls”, made of suede, rubber or leather . The total quantity of falls varies between 6-8 and 40-60 units. Their total length, as a rule, does not exceed more than 800 mm. Depending on thickness and leather’s composition, this type of flogger can be soft and warm-up device, as well as hard one, for violent and short impact.
The whip is the most dangerous among mobile devices. Usually it has a handle between 200 and 1000 mm. in length and very long tail, up to 10-12 meters. The whip’s tail ends with halyard or clapper, made of leather or other material. The clappers are meant to make a loud cracking sound. The whip itself is meant for the point impacts, splashes and wraps.
Restraining:
The individual restraining facilities are: arm shields, leg armour, handcuffs, shackles, splashes and wraps. The arm shields are very comfortable for restraining, as they do not disturb blood circulation, the wrists could be restrained in a safe way, and this device can be fixed and removed very easy and fast. Usually the arm shields are made of a soft leather with suede back. For a full hooking of the slave the special aerial arm shields of proper shape are used. There are high standards for such devices, they should withstand the greater weight and load, than the usual ones. At the same time, their wrap is more tight, the Submissive’s hand shouldn’t even slip through this device under full weight of the body. Therefore, the clasp is fastened more tightly. Back in this case has a special importance. Even on application of this back, the slave’s hand should be wrapped using the elastic bandage or soft leather. It is done in order to avoid the arm shield’s slipping.
Leg armour is made of leather as well. The general requirements are the same as to already examined arm shield’s standards.
Bondage:
If we touch the topic of bondage, we may say that it means binding, fixation and restraining. It may suppose all kinds of limitations, to wide extent. Restraining when flagellation, can accomplish two functions: the practical and the decorative (of entourage) one. The practical purpose of bondage is important when enhancement of the impact. The stronger hits you practice, then grows respectively the necessity for your partner to be restrained properly. The intense whip is safe only if this one is applied with precision. But if your slave is able to move, it gets difficult to impact effectively and promptly, as the reflex movements are rather chaotic.
Decorative BDSM Devices:
The handcuffs in BDSM, mostly, used as entourage. They emphasize the Submissive’s dependency and attaches to role-playing more naturalness. Handcuffs can be used for practical purposes as well, but you should know that their use is recommended when small exertion is applied, while the Submissive controls his moves. There is no need to use collars for restraining when flogging. From the other hand, there are no any contradictions for such fixation, if Submissive and his Dominant like such kind of restraining. Using the collar, you should avoid the squeeze of your throat, as during the impact the oxygen requirements and respiration rate are increased.
Due to their beauty and unusualness the chains may be used in BDSM for restraining as well. Some turns around your wrists and small lock, and you will have the unique “handcuffs”, that may dress your slave. These handcuffs do not fix themselves, but your hands will be restrained very tight.
Masks and muzzles are important BDSM accessories. Their variety allows to add the various shades in your games: of masquerade, cell of inquisition and many other your fancy may imagine.
And finally. Each time before usage, check your devices on occurrence of damage. No matter how often you use them, check them, in order to avoid nasty shock when you will need them. Do not use them if you have doubts in their fitness. The vigorous cleaning and care will prolong durability of your BDSM toys, and most important, will secure your health.
Observe the rules of safety and take delight in BDSM mysteries!
